I would love, love, love to have a BIG Sister!

I think people that are allergic to lanolin are also allergic to wool because lanolin is a product derived from sheep. If a person is vegan then this is not a product for them but I would rather use something derived from an animal than created a lab.

It sounds similar to my Dudu-Osun all natural shampoo and I like that stuff. It does not do well with removing buildup but if you don't have buildup and you use- it gets the hair clean without stripping.

Let me know how Dr. Natural's works for you. I think I have seen that brand in the Vitamin Shoppe.

So you would say that it is safe to use?

Safe, I cant say 100% but it sounds ok to use. I would use it.

I meant to tell you that when my BF my hair on Monday he told me flat out he didn't like it, but as long as I am happy with it he is good. I told him that I love it and that he would get used to it! I didn't get a response to that...

So yesterday before going to Bible study he says, "Your hair is not all that bad, I can work with that." Girl I could have just smacked him! I think he said what he said the day before to see how confident I was about my decision and whether I was gonna let what he said affect me. He can be testy like that. I proud of myself though cause it didn't bother me one bit.

That is a sign of growth for me b/c I've finally overcome the idea of having to be accepted by people in general. I had that real bad! I must say that my transition has strenghten me in more ways than one.

LOL @ smack him. I know the feeling

Guys have a hard time dealing with changes we make to our appearance but most of them seem to be okay after they get used to it. I am glad he is coming around. Just wait until those random strangers start stopping you when y'all go out - he will be mesmerized.

I agree! This is a sign of growth. I use to be so worried about "fitting in" and not standing out in the crowd. Now...I don't want to be a mannequin, the more different the better

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Hey Tia!

I've been thinking about you a lot today. Is everything ok?

How did you know

Everything is fine. Just dealing with a lot and going through my storm. I'm okay - really. I took a mental health day from work yesterday to get my mind right.

I totally understand. Just know you got a sister that's standing with you. You anything, a listening ear or whatever just holla.

Remember where your help comes from! He loves you!

Thanks!
Knowing where my help comes from is about the only things keeping me grounded and from throwing my hands up.

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