Just an observation about guys and hair.

As far as getting attention from guys goes, I've noticed that I get a lot more now with my big, crazy curly sew-in weave than I did when I had a short, tapered relaxed cut.

I guess guys don't mind if your hair is relaxed bone straight or if it's big and kinky curly, they just want it to be long.

I agree with the whole long hair thing, I also think it's something about not being as high maintenance when it comes to your hair that's attractive to them. We don't have to worry as much about getting our hair messed up or wet b/c it doesn't take much (and isn't as damaging) to re-do it, but when I was getting relaxers I would have a fit if I messed up my hair

Haha I had the exact oppositereaction....... guys just don't like naturally nappy hair... but hey i really don't care anymore it's my hair, my problem, deal with it!