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tiashauntee wrote:I can't say the word "specific"

LOL my husband can't either. He thinks he can, but he always says "pacific".

Wizarding Wheezer wrote:

jamaicacurl wrote:I used to live in South Fl and I really liked Pollo Tropical. Now everytime we go down to visit, my hubby HAS to have it the first day we are there. My mom gets upset b/c she's cooked but he's thin enough, he can it twice! We're going down for Thanksgiving so I already know what's up!

Okay, it looks like I'm going to have to go back to Pollo Tropical. I was just so disappointed the one time (I know, unfair!) I went. *makes note*

i believe el polo loco is better hands down. sigh

man, is it just me or facebook really can start some drama???

Ok so I'm not a happy camper right now. I went to a natural food store and bought a small spray bottle of the Bragg's liquid aminos for $4.28 and a 12 oz bottle of Now coconut oil for $8.49.

Then I stopped in at this fairly new little farmers market I keep passing and have been meaning to stop by. How about they had the large Bragg's bottle for $4.19!!! The natural food place sold that bottle for almost $10! What a rip off! And of course I can't return it because "all sales are final". They know what they're doing. Oh and to make it worse this little farmers market had a 14 oz bottle of unrefined virgin Coconut oil for $7.99. Grrrrrrrr! I've learned my lesson and I know where I'm NOT going next time!

Oh and is jojoba oil supposed to be that expensive? The natural food place had a 2oz bottle for $8.49! The one with the green & white label.

But I did get some more Fuji apples though so all is well

dajewel, what did you do?! What did you say?? I wanna hear the FB drama!

*CurlyNikki* wrote:dajewel, what did you do?! What did you say?? I wanna hear the FB drama!

Me too! Inquiring minds wanna know! [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

@tia and jamaica-- I can't say the word 'ask'. I try my hardest, lol, but it usually comes out 'axe'. sad.

yeah, i usually pronounce it "axe", too

ok, so maybe i am being paranoid, but i was fb during lunch today. fyi: i can respond, etc via bb, but i like to get the full experience by going online. so, i was minding my business when all of a sudden a chat box comes up from this guy in ny. we have been fb friends for about a year or two. i don't know him, but he and i have friends in common. so, i guess he thinks he knows me. anyhow, all this time he is always flirting with me, but i don't mind him cuz that is just weird. so, today he chatting me up, and all of a sudden he starts asking me did i see his recent pics. i said yeah, and he said what did i think of him. i said, he was ok. he was like ok? i was like yeah, just ok. and then he asked me what parts of myself do i think are attractive. i said my skin, eyes, ability to be social butterfly, willingness to help others, etc. i then asked him the same. and then he tells me that he wants to send pics of himself naked. i was like NO NO NO, that is inappropriate, the line has been explicitly drawn, don't cross it again, etc. he was like i don't see a problem with that, he was like i need your honest opinion, etc. i was like you need to get an honest opinion from your girl. and then he was like come up and visit this weekend (he lives in nyc). now, this is the part that i am being paranoid because the man that i know am going to marry someday also lives in nyc. both guys are west indian. all west indians know each other via less than six degrees of separation. i noticed that said pervert is friends of a friend of the guy that i know am going to marry on fb. the guy that i know that i am going to marry and i make trips to see one another since we have met. so, am i crazy to think that guy that i am going to marry said something to a friend?? i believe he more than likely wouldn't say anything because none of his actions thus far would make me believe that he was that insensitive, rude, mean, etc (i have known him wayyy longer than said pervert)

btw: said pervert has around 1800 friends on fb, and most of them are good-looking women. so, i do believe he is just one of those picture collectors type.

now, am thinking of bringing this up to man am going to marry one day, but i don't want to look crazy for using fb as a basis to my question. so, am trying to cool my head off, regroup and think of how i would tackle this with said man.

so, this is a perfect example of fb drama.

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girl...

curlynikki, for real!!! that was the weirdest convo!!

dajewel wrote:curlynikki, for real!!! that was the weirdest convo!!

Wow sorry that happened to you!!! Did you defriend pervert???

yes, i defriended pervert. am real shaken up! this is crazy. is this a symptom of friday 13th???

'defriend pervert' lol!
but seriously, did you?! I guess he'd been testing the water all of this time, and decided to go balls to the wall today...literally! So inappropriate!

@dajewel....uh......ok.
yeah he is weird. and a pervert. He is friends with the man you're going to marry?

My thing is that true he's clearly inappropriate and perverted but if he is in any way connected to your future husband, I would tell him (future hubby) about this conversation and the perverts perverted advances. Before he flips the script and tells hubby the opposite (in case you hurt his ego telling him he was just "ok").

whew, drama it is!

serious, naturalnurse!! yes, man came out of left field, and was like lemme send you some pics of me naked. i was like huh? even man that i gonna marry someday and i don't do that. that is just weird and stuff.

*CurlyNikki* wrote:'defriend pervert' lol!
but seriously, did you?! I guess he'd been testing the water all of this time, and decided to go balls to the wall today...literally! So inappropriate!

LOL @ "balls to the wall"! You're the 3rd person I've heard say that and it cracks me up everytime! I'm a little too visual [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.]

no, he is a friend of a friend of the man am going to marry one day ( i know confusing, right?)

*CurlyNikki* wrote:'defriend pervert' lol!
but seriously, did you?! I guess he'd been testing the water all of this time, and decided to go balls to the wall today...literally! So inappropriate!

yeah, i had to laugh at "defriend pervert"!! fb is definitely part of our modern culture, man! yeah, i quickly defriended dude.

dajewel wrote:no, he is a friend of a friend of the man am going to marry one day ( i know confusing, right?)

Ok so they need to defriend him too! LOL

jamaicacurl wrote:@dajewel....uh......ok.
yeah he is weird. and a pervert. He is friends with the man you're going to marry?

My thing is that true he's clearly inappropriate and perverted but if he is in any way connected to your future husband, I would tell him (future hubby) about this conversation and the perverts perverted advances. Before he flips the script and tells hubby the opposite (in case you hurt his ego telling him he was just "ok").

whew, drama it is!

yeah, the more i re-process the convo, the more am like i need to tell dude this. i didn't call or txt him yet because i didn't want to be too hysterical.

jamaicacurl wrote:

dajewel wrote:no, he is a friend of a friend of the man am going to marry one day ( i know confusing, right?)

Ok so they need to defriend him too! LOL

i know that future hubby has a friend(whom i don't know) that is friend with said pervert, but future hubby isn't friends with the said pervert.

dajewel, we just talked about this last night. One of my friends updated her status that she was online to reconnect with old friends, not to hook up and to the young man that kept pushing up on me, you've been removed, lol

Be careful

enchantment, after that convo, i changed my status twice; i was trying to convey the absurdity of the convo, but i was just at a lose for words. i am going to hi-jack ur friend's status.