I would like a big sister

Hello all,

I'm not sure how i'm suppose to word this but I made a post in the General forum. here it is
http://www.curlynikki.forumotion.com/general-f3/i-m-still-confused-by-my-hair-lol-t3564.htm

The post will tell you alittle bit about my hair "problems" and I linked a facebook album of my hair.

I am actively trying to better my hair but i know i would benifit from a big sis. I'm all for trail and error but i'm almost 2 years natural isn't the trail and error stage suppose to be over? lol

Thanks in advance!