Help finding a haircut hairstyle...something/venting

Iigh so like I was going to finally get a twist out today two strand twist to be exact so my beautician ordered me designs natural curl stretching cream because I have a unhealthy attachment to what hair i do have left so anyways she twists it im up under the dryer for two hot ass hours we untwist em an i was so disappointed so we washed it out and she hot combed my hair then i noticed i was shedding like my dog does before it get really really cold outside an im just like oh wtf now 0.o then my beautician is all like next time come back were going to have to take off about 3inches your going to have to wear a bob.....I DONT HAVE A BOB HEAD. So im pissed now and im trying to figure out what im going to do im freaking out my boyfriend is freaking out and I hate weave I MIGHT WEAR WEAVE im sorry im just kind of venting

i'm sorry you had such a bad experience. honestly, if i was you, that beautician would no longer be my beautician. dont freak out, treat your hair well and hopefully it wont come to the point of you having to cut your hair.

hey um have you ever big chopped??