frizzy straight ends anyone??

so i cowashed my hair and dt with pantene breakage defense and the mask and attempted for the third time to try to cd hair milk on soaking wet hair. I wringed the excess water out of my hair with my hands (don't know if this has anything to do with it). i put about a quarter amount in my hair scrunched it in but as i was doing that i looked in the mirror and noticed that i had straight ends sticking out. mind you i've been natural since oct 08 and noticed that i had still had some straight ends left thinking that not all the perm was cut out so i recently had it cut in oct 09 so no more perm left! anybody else experience this?