Re: Jealousy affecting my confidence

by Guest 27th December 2010, 11:37 pm

@creolebeauty1..
i wouldn't sweat it and i mean, what's the point of being jealous? their hair is probably different from yours...do u even know their hair type?? alot of times, depending on products used and hair type, u get different results; don't give up or think ur hair isn't cute just b/c someone else has hair that u think looks way better than yours~

by Smooth Jazz Luvr 28th December 2010, 12:38 am

Hey! Listen to your curly sistas! Just think of your accomplishments - from where you started. TLog is correct: don't stress about it. If it's one thing we all have learned - and still learning - is patience [MAN! Too bad that can't be purchased/swapped or a Nikki give-a-way, huh]. When I first started, I was saying, 'daaaannnggg - my hair ain't doing NUTHIN'. I was looking in the mirror every 15 minutes trying to see growth - LOL. When I started focusing on other things -- but still kept the maintenance -- I could see/feel the growth!

The person you're comparing yourself to is most likely comparing HERSELF to someone else. Remember, she had a starting point, too. Even though you may not realize it, someone is checking YOU out, and you're an inspiration to them with your natural hair journey.

You know the saying: the grass not greener on the other side, but it's the grass that gets watered the most!

Stay strong! Keep going! And remember, when you need it, your curly sistas are here to give you a big GROUP HUG!!!

by **Lynnieluve** 28th December 2010, 12:44 am

DreamMerchant wrote:
misskris wrote:LMAO!!! because Dream Merchant (right above me) is my new hair idol but in all honesty I know I can't expect my hair to look like hers (as beautiful as it is). But I can strive to make mine as healthy and pretty as it can be, for MY hair!!!

You make me blush Misskris

I'm one of your new subbies!!!

by creolebeauty1 28th December 2010, 1:17 am

awwww thank you everyone i can feel the love Smile

by creolebeauty1 28th December 2010, 1:18 am

hey i want to sub lol

by misskris 28th December 2010, 1:23 am

DreamMerchant wrote:
misskris wrote:LMAO!!! because Dream Merchant (right above me) is my new hair idol but in all honesty I know I can't expect my hair to look like hers (as beautiful as it is). But I can strive to make mine as healthy and pretty as it can be, for MY hair!!!

You make me blush Misskris

Hahaha!!

by **Lynnieluve** 28th December 2010, 1:53 am

creolebeauty1 wrote:hey i want to sub lol

https://www.youtube.com/user/TheBlackRawFoodist

She is so adorable...shhh, Dont tell her I said that....probably shouldnt say that about a grown woman but she is.... Laughing

by rayray19 28th December 2010, 2:01 am

I subscribed too!! love the channel hair is gorgeous!!!

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