Need a big Sis!!!!

So i have been natural for about a yr now and i did the BC. I have been trying to handle my hair pretty much on my y own the entire time. I am not sure if what i am doing is right or if i am going about it all wrong. I definatly feel like i need some help. Or maybe just some reassureace any way you look at it i would like a big sis to be able to chat with about my hair.

welcome and congrats! i would love to help u. tell me about your hair, products regimen, etc....

Oh my goodness where to start.......

My hair is very confused lol. I had what i think was 4a hair, until i had it flat ironed and wore it that way for about a week. And it has not been the same ever since. I think it is more like 3b and 4a. My curls in the front a much looser than they used to be.

My regimen consists of

co-wash every day My products change. (I was using Mixed chicks cond or carols daughter black vannilla hair smoothie) i am now tryin the HEHH i used it once so far.


shampoo 1x a week. I have used carols daughter mixed chicks, organix coconut oil, aussie whatever happens to bewithin reach.

For style i will sometines leave my conitioner in and not rinse it (most of the time).Or I use the mixed chickes leavin and Ag's recoil.

I never have second day hair i have to wet it everyday other wise i would walk around looking like i have a helmet on my head LOL.

i dont see anything wrong with your regimen and your hair looks beautiful.if your regimen is working for u than i would say if its not broke than dont fix it. i leave my conditioner in my hair and dont rinse, it works fine for me.many curlies leave conditioner in their hair. if it works than that fine but u can try mixed chickes if u want, its up to u.

I do have the mixed chicks and i did really like it. I use the leavin condish with the recoil for hold and it seems to work great.

I thnk i have way to many products on some level i just keep buying stuff and never use it. So i am trying to use what i have however i dont like some of it, but i can bring muself to get rid of it or throw it away either.