I REAAAALLLLLLLLLY NEED A BIG SIS!!

I'VE BEEN TRANSITIONING FOR 10 MONTHS AND I HAVE NOT THE SLIGHTEST IDEA WHAT TO DO WITH MY HAIR WHEN IT'S NOT IN BRAIDS OR PRESSED. I HAVE LOOKED THROUGH PICTURES OF ALL THE STYLES THAT PEOPLE WEAR, TRIED THEM MYSELF, AND ENDED UP LOOKING A MESS!! PEOPLE TALK ABOUT HAIR TWINS. . . I HAVE NOT FOUND MINE YET. I NEED HELP BADLY!! IT'S HARD ENOUGH TRANSITIONING, BUT NO ONE IN MY CLOSE FAMILY IS A NATURAL. [You must be registered and logged in to see this image.] SO IF SOME1 WOULD VOLUNTEER TO BE MY BIG SIS, IT WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. YOU CAN SEE MY PROGRESS AT FOTKI (ISIS-ATHENA-VIRGO).

I would like a big sis that transitioned for a while and didn't BC so she could help me out with the two textures. I really would like hairstyles that compliment me and fit my personality (usually the ones that I try have been flops). However, any natural can help. I'm not really concerned about the age as much as the message. It's hard sometimes when you have to deal with two textures and people are screaming perm it, perm your hair. If you have any comments or ideas, please respond to this post or contact me at http://members.fotki.com/isis-athena-virgo.

My current regimen is NOT WORKING!! I stopped shampooing my hair in place of DevaCare NoPoo. I use JessieCurl deep condish and Aubrey Organics Honeysuckle Rose condish. I've tried he hello hydration, he twisted, and it's one more I can't think of. I even use Giovanni's leave in condish. My natural hair is sometimes soft after this, but my permed hair is a mess. Moisturizing my hair is horrible. I bought Oyin Handmade Whipped Pudding to seal the hair, but no such luck. For some reason my hair does not dry at all. So the braid-outs, bantu knots, tnc, and curls stand no chance. Just a long term transitioner looking for help.

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thank you!!