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Post by Lynnieluve on 5th February 2011, 4:10 pm

Why does the natural hair community get so upset when a celebrity say they don't like natural hair? Every one has a preference. I could care less what kind of hair they like honestly. I'm gonna do me regards.....SMH...."We" can be so sensitive at times.

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Post by DivaDreamgirl on 5th February 2011, 4:18 pm

I agree! I didn't even watch the video after reading what it was about because I could care less!
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Post by cluelesscurl on 5th February 2011, 4:23 pm

Same here I didn't watch the video either that's his preference we can't plz everyone

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Post by Music8192 on 5th February 2011, 4:27 pm

lol yea i saw it too.. didn't think it was gonna be as big as it was.. and people have a right to their own preferences.
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Post by 1FlySista on 5th February 2011, 4:45 pm

DITTO!
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Post by creolebeauty1 on 5th February 2011, 4:55 pm

I saw the video because i'm subscribed to the girl on youtube he looked intoxicated and whether he likes natural hair or now that's his preference we are all entitled to that but i did not like the" peesy Afro" remark like what's a peesy fro ? but you are right he is totally entitled to his preference smh some people were OD 'ing on the subject like talking about running up on him and stuff SMH
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Post by sweetdrk1 on 5th February 2011, 5:18 pm

I saw it and moved on! Heck I don't like him, or rap, or broccoli..but who cares! bounce
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Post by Sebastain13 on 5th February 2011, 5:43 pm

I agree I dont care what he likes this is my hair & I will do with it what I please I love me & my hair He is entitled to his opinion
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Post by molove87 on 5th February 2011, 5:57 pm

I know a lot of people were upset about the video.. I actually laughed when I watched it, because as someone mentioned, he looked intoxicated. His opinion really didn't matter, so it was a joke to me.
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Post by Emartini04 on 5th February 2011, 6:11 pm

He looked high as sh@t and he is known for being a jokester so his video didn't really bother me. What I did not like was the peesy fro and hair being done coment.
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Post by Lynnieluve on 5th February 2011, 6:19 pm

What is a peesy fro? Exactly....nobody knows what that is. No need to get upset.

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Post by Emartini04 on 5th February 2011, 6:20 pm

Here is his response. He's not too happy about everyone being so mad at him:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpKyZQzD54U
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Post by Emartini04 on 5th February 2011, 6:23 pm

[quote="Lynnieluve"]What is a peesy fro? Exactly....nobody knows what that is. No need to get upset.[/qu


Most ignorant people consider a peesy fro a hair texture that consists of 4b/4c curls. That's what it is. Am I highly upset with it? No I'm not but I'm entitled to my opinion also. Am I going crazy over it? No I'm not. I did not go crazy over the whole nicki minaj comment about nappy hair and this doesn't bother me either.
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Post by Lynnieluve on 5th February 2011, 6:31 pm

Thanks for posting his response. Hopefully it helps the people who actually got upset.

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Post by rayray19 on 5th February 2011, 6:59 pm

@Emartini04 love your avatar!!

and I agree everyone has their own preference...if we all liked the same thing this world would be BORING!!
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Post by Indigo.Blue on 5th February 2011, 7:25 pm

Yes LynnieLuve!!! I was think the same exact thing.

I really did not hear him say anything offensive. He is allowed to have a preference. I am natural and I don't like most afros and I don't like all locks. I love locks when they are neat and cared for. I also agree with him about doing your hair...I don't get how the natural community want to force their identity or preference down other's throats when most naturals are just starting to accept their own identities (and it took them/us decades to accept...) Stop trying to deny someone else something you demand! Okay, I am done Smile

Oh, one more thing, when you get mad that someone does not prefer your style remember that you have a preference in the way you like your man to wear his hair...ex. locks, cornrows, braids, short cut, afro, twist, bald...whatever...it is the same thing...
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Post by cyclingchick on 5th February 2011, 8:49 pm

I agree, Lynnie...it is, what it is...natural hair isn't for everyone...and that's why my journey is for ME. We can't expect everyone to be a member of Team Natural.
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Post by sonance on 5th February 2011, 9:20 pm

I'll tell you why many get upset....you can have your preference and no one is stopping it. We're all entitled. The BIGGER issue is the negative descriptions when talking about Natural hair. Calling an afro 'peasy' or saying you like your woman's hair 'did/done' implies Natural hair looks unkempt or bad.

Black women get enough bad press and negativity in the media so do we really need extra shit spewed out there because many of us are loving, nurturing and growing our hair in it's natural state????

No one has to like it but like many of our mother's have told us....IF YOU GOT NOTHING NICE TO SAY THEN SAY NOTHING AT ALL!!!

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Post by sonance on 5th February 2011, 9:26 pm

Let me also say that I truly could care less what he likes and no, I am not angry. I just don't like how Black women are portrayed whether it's rap music, videos, movies, or the fact that a missing black woman means silence in the media but let a becky or a polly come up missing and her face gets plastered throughout the country! "Gotta save the white bitch." That's a phrase me and my hubby use when something happnes reagarding a missing white woman.
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Post by Lynnieluve on 5th February 2011, 9:29 pm

@ Sonance - You should listen to his response. The link is above ^^^

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Post by ChardaeD on 5th February 2011, 9:35 pm

Last time I checked...I didn't give a flying you-know-what about what anyone thinks about my hair. Meth included.

And I agree, he definitely looked high in that video!
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Post by QuirkyCurly on 5th February 2011, 9:37 pm

@sweetdrk1 you're pic is so cute!!

But I agree with you all!

I think a lot of naturals are overly upset at a preference. People just want everyone to say something nice or nothing at all. I think a lot of them just want everyone to like their hair when everyone's not going to like it.

I mean its method man guys! Lol this guy makes rhymes for a living

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Post by Tiffy2 on 5th February 2011, 9:45 pm

I watched the video and it honestly didn't bother me! I was like ooookkkk NEXT....
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Post by sonance on 5th February 2011, 9:47 pm

Heard the response. Just sounds like damage control but like I said before...he can have his preference. The negative comments made about Natural Hair was the issue for me. No, I don't need people to like my hair and I'm not self-consious about it either. I've been natural for over 5 year and there's no self-doubt or fear associated with my tresses. It's the negative remarks that get flung at us whether it's our hair, or bodies, our attitude, speech....etc.

He's not the only one saying crap, but he's just the newest. He'll blow over the next time some well-known Black man goes on record with some ugly statements about us.


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Post by tiashaunteé on 5th February 2011, 9:58 pm

I don't get it either, I didn't even bother to watch the vid because his opinion doesn't matter to me. I don't like guys that look like him so it looks like neither one of us have anything to worry about , lol.
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